Sufficient Antia, dancer and Computer Engineering student at Daben Polytechnics, better known as ‘Sun Fire’ has warned girls who depend on men to pay their bills to desist from such.
She also revealed how she declined an offer of N500,000 from a guy who was wooing her.
The 22-year-old disclosed this at a programme in Abuja on Sunday.
She said, “Girls should be smarter because any lady that is depending on a man right now is not being sensible because at some point your parents get tired of you taking care of you, so imagine a man that is not even your family member, he would get tired at some point because no one likes a liability.
“Some girls are lucky, maybe just 1% are that lucky. So at some point, the man would get tired and for girls that want to hustle, you better start now because, no matter how young or old you are, you can always make something of yourself.
“Being the last born in my house, I didn’t feel like there was a time that I would have to work because my father was very rich before he died and when a misunderstanding came up in my family that I knew that I will have to work before I can eat.
“I have turned down many offers, especially when you check your account balance and you are seeing fifty thousand naira (#50,000)and someone is offering you five hundred thousand naira(500,000) it is hard to turn down, but first Nigeria is not safe and secondly how many men will you sleep with? and once you start you can’t stop,” she said.
On her education, she said despite being on a 30 percent scholarship, she works to take care of herself and her siblings.
“Working and schooling at the same time is very hard though, coming from work, to school and from school is stressful, but at some point, my body system needs to adapt, now am seeing it as a daily routine and keeping my CGPA grade on 3.5 if not they might withdraw their scholarship,” she said.
She described her employer, Mrs. Adeke Isi Adeeko as a role model.
“My boss is like a role model I want to be like her because she’s very composed. When I started working with her whiskey, the first day I saw her I was like wow because she’s too composed like the way she moves, the way she talks, and everything. She’s a role model to me and I just want to be everything like her,” Sufficient said.
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